in spite of youth culture says, women aren't ho's or whores they are ladies and the f word isn't an acceptable expression of anger. Respect isn't given it is earn.

To all my youthful friends, language does matter and what you watch and read does effect you to some extent. There is truth in the saying garbage in equals garbage out. If you want a much more civilize culture then you cannot demand it you must live it. You must take charge of your own words and deeds.

For all young guys out there, you say you want a Vestal Virgin but in reality you want a Venus. Here is a big hint, if you treat a woman like a vestal virgin in public you will find that when you take her home she will become a Venus. Learn to be a gentlemen and treat all women with respect. Learn to be a protector not an exploiter. Learn self restraint. Cultivate your mind and allow it and not your base urges to rule.  Set high goals and work to achieve them.

For all young ladies out there, demand to be treated like a lady. Don't put up with being called a ho, whore or bitch. Don't forgot you are much more than a body, you have a brain so cultivate it. Set goals and work to achieve them. Cultivate your wit and your charm because your intelligence, wit and charm are your greatest weapons.

To both cultivate within yourselves proper manners. There is much to be said for civility and little to be respected in coarseness. There is much to be respected in modesty and little to be said for lewdness. So work on those things that accent the positive and scrape way those things that accent the negative.

It is these things that will create a more civil society for no government can mandate them. It is left for each of us to do the work.

Let the stone throwing begin.